Dating man married relationship

05 Apr

Some of those perpetual issues or differences such as free-spending or frugal, neat and orderly or sloppy and disorganized, interested in lots of time together or more involved in outside activities begin to emerge.At this stage of the relationship, couples will take note of the differences and may even begin to complain or attempt to problem-solve.Some stages take longer than others to go through and some people take much longer at each stage.Unfortunately, some people don’t fully experience and process each stage as an opportunity for personal growth or to make a healthy evaluation about the relationship or about themselves.Differences are not noticed or are dismissed with thoughts like “not a big deal” or “she will change”.

At this stage, the attraction may not be too “deep” and each half of a couple is generally putting his or her best foot forward.Questions about children, finances, careers, future goals and lifestyle should be discussed more fully.Differences are normal and couples will learn about themselves and their relationship as they note how they handle these differences with each other.Often (not always) there is not enough “is this the right person for me” but rather more “what can I do to make this person like me?” This stage may last for 3 or 4 months depending on the individuals and their maturity, experience and self-understanding.